Thank you from the Smolinski’s
August 28, 2009
Friendship is something
I think we all know about…
…friendship is something that is built on one another connecting with each other, sharing of oneself, and giving of oneself. This week I can honestly say I witnessed true friendship and love from Albany CrossFit.
The out pouring of support for our family was beyond words, being showered with cards, food and more food, as well as people dropping in just to make sure we were alright.
The night of Steve’s wake was one of the hardest days of my life, but having 30+ people walking in from ACF made it feel like our second home relocated up Central Ave. We had streams of people to console us, to comfort us, to listen and to hug.
I have not only been fortunate to have made good friends at ACF I was fortunate to have a friend of 28 years. Steve and I had been together through good times and bad times…and I'm proud to say the unconditional bond and friendship remained. "I am honored" to have had Steve get to know the people at ACF. The place he would say changed us both. The place he felt friendship. The place where he not only found true friends but where I did as well. Friends that I know will become "life long" friends.
Thank you for your love and sincere kindness. Myself and my family will never forget. I would be honored if you joined Stacey and I in a Memorial WOD for Steve on September 5, 2009.
With love,
Joy
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No words can express how sad I am to lose my father. He was a supportive, caring, loving man who was someone I could always count on. Going to CrossFit together was one of the many memories we shared together. First coming to Eugene’s 8:00 class my father was motivated and inspired by the group of people he was working out with. A few weeks later he started coming to the 4:30 class with me. Not only was everyone welcoming they were always willing to give tips or suggestions for improvement. As a hard worker, my father continually made improvements with his technique and set new PR’s in his lifts.
Every night I would tell him how great he did and how awesome he was going to be. His response was, “I am not looking to beat anyone’s time or lift more than them. I just want to get better for myself.” My father was a proud Athlete of the Week. Coming home that night he was so excited about his accomplishment and the congratulations he received from everyone. For the short time my father was at CrossFit he made friends who were already like family to me and became a member of the CrossFit family himself.
I can’t describe to you how much I loved my dad, but I am truly thankful for all the support that was given to my family during this difficult time. Thank you again.
- Stacey
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To see Steve do what he came to love (like all of us in CrossFit)
go to Albany CrossFit's post of August 23rd.
(Thank you Jason, for the beautiful slide show and write up of Steve.)
If you would like to join us for the Memorial WOD please let us know in the comments section.
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24 Responses to Thank you from the Smolinski’s
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Tom Myers says:
Joy and Stacy sorry I couldn’t make it to the wake but I will be there for the WOD it would be an honor to remenber such a great guy in a way we all knew him kickin ass in a WOD
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Sarah J says:
I as well could not make it to the wake, but I most certainly WILL be at the memorial WOD. This post was nothing more than heart filled and beautiful, and words still cannot describe my sympathy for you and your family. I will see you there <3
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Abby says:
I will be there for the WOD. It will be an honor.
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angie f says:
absolutely,I would be honored to attend.
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Josh F. says:
It would be my honor to attend this WOD in honor of a fellow crossfiter who was always a pleasure to see in class and always had a smile on his face.
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andrea d says:
I will most definitely be there. Look forward to seeing you both soon.
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Javy says:
Joy, Stacey and Steve, you have my deepest sympathies over the loss of your loving husband and caring father. The world lost a great man far to soon. It would be my honor to sweat alongside fellow crossfitters in Stephen’s memory.
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George says:
I’ll definitely be there
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John J says:
I’ll definitely be there. It would be an honor.
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Jackie says:
wouldn’t miss it for the world!
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Nina R says:
Absolutely.
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Joy and Stacey-
Being relatively new to Crossfit, I don’t think we’ve met. However, I am generally in the 3:30 class so everyday when I was done, I saw Steve sitting in the hall waiting to get started. He always greeted me with a smile, a “Hello” and a “Great Job!” It was just one more example of the camaraderie and teamwork of Crossfit. He seemed like a great person and I am very sorry for your loss. Sorry I won’t be able to make the WOD– wish I could!
Regards,Mary Pat Van Etten
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Viviane Guicheney says:
wouldn’t miss this for anything!!
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juli peterson says:
Joy, so very sorry for your loss. Aloha,
juli peterson-Rip’s crew -
Joy and Stacey,
We are sorry to hear of your loss. In this difficult time, you will always be able to lean on the CrossFit family.
CrossFit Redding sends their sincere condolences. -
Joy & Stacey~
May time do for you what no words can.
If you let me know what your Memorial WOD is I will be sure to put it up on our board September 5 for our athletes to do in honor of Steve.
Best,
Kim Malz
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Very sorry for your loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Bulldog CrossFit crew.Gio
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Neal says:
Joy and Stacey,
Jessica and I are very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Best,
Neal and Jessica Thompson
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Diana V. says:
Joy & Stacey,
As I told you at the wake – I think the world of you guys and will definitely be there for “Steve’s WOD”!!! -
DonaRWildove says:
I will also be there for Steve’s WOD.
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Catherine T says:
Joy and Stacey,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. I wouldn’t miss this WOD for the world. I can’t wait to honor Steve and will see you Saturday.
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I would be honored!